Article by: Archana Sathish, Strategic Design Unit
‘I’m just a dreamer. Perhaps not much far away from being a whizz kid’.
Have you ever envisaged your future yet? Why is it that we dream something and don’t chase after it? Was it worthless? Pointless? Completely a waste of time? What makes us give up so easily? If the dreams are going to bring laurels to you, why is there an impediment to attain so? To speculate further, we can say that it is mostly the sense of apprehension that creates a “Going-down-in-flames” scenario.
However, as we say, there is always a solution to every scenario we face in life. The bigger picture matters. Being a dreamer isn’t adequate at all as we need to lay down the ‘road to success’ by drafting a blueprint as to not only ‘what it is’ but mainly ‘how do I reach there’. Firstly, we need to have the creed in what we are doing. Also, it is significant to review your dreams from time to time. There is no point in chasing dreams which are unrealistic! They need to be measurable and have a proper timeframe too. Most importantly have you comprehended your vision thoroughly? If not, that is a necessity as nothing can go beyond it.
How many of us have actually spared 10 minutes of our lifetime playing with a paper and pen when it comes to fulfilling realistic visions? Try it out to get clear and succinct images of the dreams we want to accomplish. Leave no stone unturned and try to seize the perfect opportunity.
Well the ball is in your court if you want to modify dreams into reality. In addition, we need to be highly inquisitive and pro-active about the pros and cons of our goals as it’s better to script it down to face them in future.
Secondly, we may arrive at a flummoxed place due to various opinions and views perceived from the society, well -wishers and others. It’s all about how resilient and stable we are. If we have a solid mind set and have arrived at the best concrete decision as to ‘this is what I want to be in life’, nothing will atone and hence nothing to worry about!
To conclude, try stepping out of your comfort zone as it is very much required to face the challenges for attaining the dream. As it cannot be fulfilled overnight! Once you let yourself out, the unwelcomed anxiety will fly away automatically.
No further halts required. Follow your heart! Follow your dream as it’s time to break a leg!
Article by- Athira Premarajan, Research and Content Development Associate
I remember exactly how the writer in me was born. It was one of those lousy afternoon sessions at school. But collectively, we looked forward to Communicative English class. The day was oddly special as we knew the results of the monthly evaluation test was on its way. We were a group of kids who innately had hatred towards the subjects of Maths and Science. At least, I wish to believe it that way. Because it was the time when Engineers and Doctors were even growing on trees (no offence)! So, we eagerly looked forward to these subject papers as accomplishing an 80 was a cakewalk, and also, we loved our teacher.
The distribution of papers was followed by the usual grin on everyone’s face. One could capture a group photo as it was always a ‘picture perfect’ moment. After her usual feedback session and advice, my teacher took my paper and started reading it line by line. It was a scary moment until I realized it was for appreciating my writing. As the subject involved mostly creative writing and the likes, it seems I had nailed it perfectly. So, that was the best moment of my life, which lead me to what I am today.
As my teacher, there will always be one person in each of our lives, who might have inspired us in being what we are today. Probably those people won’t even know it but, that particular afternoon made me believe that I can write. It made me intentional of being something I never thought I’d be. Intentionality basically is a result of self-will and perseverance. There will definitely be an inspiring figure for everyone to become what they are. Mine was my teacher. But, had I left that inspiration halfway at the end of that class, I wouldn’t have realized my talent and satiate my passion to write. Intentionality thus, should come from within and act as the catalyst in achieving our ambitions. My inspiration was my teacher and the catalyst was my will.
Being a millennial, my life comes with various perks and challenges. Opportunities being the perk and competitions being the challenge. I am certain that all of us millennial are more or less on the same path when career intentionality comes in the frame. Although similar, the situation one is in can be paradoxically different. It would not be an easy affair for a mother of two to become career intentional one fine day. But, if you have that spark within you, believe that no one or nothing can ever stop you from becoming what you want to be. I held on to my passion despite being engaged with another job. Wanting to have a career in writing, reading and writing had always been my allies. Besides, my intense will to learn the technicalities also landed me in several online courses. Now, these were my attempts in keeping my passion alive. I know that every one of you out there is a proud owner of your passion. But, how often do you nurture it? How much have you considered to turn it into a career or something more? Excuses can be made by anyone. And had the successful women had time for making excuses, never will they have been tagged under the same. So, sort out some ‘me time’ and start today. Spend an hour for building your skills and get used to the market trends before you enter it. Only willingness, or to technically put it, only intentionality will lead you to what you want to be. So, through these borrowed lines I’d like to say, be your own wind keeper. Seasons change but, keep your passion alive, updated.
Article by: Athira Premarajan, Research and Content Development Associate
Women. A word that carries umpteen meanings and incredible potential. A self-made piece of art that refracts colourful strands in various forms as strength, knowledge, beauty, courage, and whatnot. Framing the capabilities of a woman together itself is a gargantuan task for the tremendousness of it. Rather than opting for a descriptive format, here are stories of two different women, whose lives took a U-turn towards the side of accomplishment.
An ideal figure is the one whom we look forward to. There is an ideal daughter, the ideal teacher, an ideal character, etc. Most of us are taught to learn from someone who has been successful or accomplished something in their lives. Most Indian parents usually asks to look at how a neighbour’s child performs: “Look how Rashi is studying. She always comes first in class and never goes out with those crazy friends of yours every evening. Why can’t you be like her?!” Just a typical parental response. It must not be new to anyone. Have any of these parents wondered what their daughter or son has that Rashi doesn’t? No. There is no proven data as such but mothers are often seen on the judgement bench and measuring her child in comparison with the neighbour’s child. Neha, who was a victim of this torment once lashed back at her mother. For nothing else but to establish her interest in Arts and not Science. Anyone who has gone through the trouble can predict the aftereffects of this. Yes, it was like the end of the world…!
It was a busy morning, and Rashi was never more exhausted. Her kid had lost his pencil box and husband his belt. After the tireless effort – searching and finding, Rashi finally made it to the kitchen for wrapping up the tiffin boxes for both her kid and husband…
One might wonder how sadistic the author is. One story idealizes Rashi and the next thing she is tirelessly working towards the happiness of her new family. We knew from the previous story Rashi’s potential and how the neighbours envied her talent in studying. Hard or not, this is sometimes the reality. Rashi was a brilliant student at school. She never gave a chance to upset her parents with any of the struggles concerning her studies. She battled through to become a software engineer. Soon after into the job, she was married to a banker and had to give up her hard-earned career which her parents wanted for her. Not long was her journey from a corporate building to her in-law’s. Strangely uncomforting, she sailed through anyway.
…Soon, they were out of the house for confronting their daily actions. Rashi, having done with all house chores, sat in front of her laptop eager to check her inbox. A former software engineer turned food vlogger; she was a hit online. She is finally happy with her choice of career and is looking forward to expanding her brand. Her loving husband kindled the path to this, and now she is content with her life and choices.
An ally is what some people miss. If you find yours, call yourself lucky, like Rashi. Or sometimes like in the case of Neha, you need to put your foot down on establishing and going forward with your ambitions. Here, Rashi’s ally was her partner.
…! Neha was grounded for the rest of the week. She was not allowed to go out and play with her friends and all her watercolours, oil pastels were confiscated. Her table, which used to be an artist’s palette turned out to look more like an apothecary table, only with books. But she was a tough little bird, which her mother realized late. She protested, sat hungry, fell sick until she got back her things.
A few years down the lane, she is now a professor at one of the renowned art institutions in the world.
Intention and perseverance work hand-in-hand. If you lack either one of it, you may not reach where you actually want to. Neha was intentional. She knew what she wanted from the beginning and pursued it later in her life. And in the case of Rashi, though a little later, she also landed in a position which she realized at a later point in life.
It is up to us to decide whether these stories are fictional. What we mostly wonder or get mesmerized is for something which we do not have in us. Fortunate or unfortunate, sometimes there are people who are ambitious for us more than ourselves. Without giving a second thought to any of our likes or dislikes, they decide for us what is best. Take the cases of Rashi and Neha. They tried hard to cope up with their parents’ will. Rashi succeeded and made them proud, and Neha rebelled. As an individual, what we need to understand is that we are brought up in different circumstances, narrowed choices and unknown ambitions. But, when you realize that something is missing and you really want it, pursue it. And if you are a parent who could relate your actions with the instances in the stories, it’s high-time you sat down for a talk with your kids. Sometimes there will not be someone like Rashi’s husband to show one the path. So, who better than a parent or an immediate family member to support and acknowledge the strength of their dear ones and lead them to the path of success? And who better to stand for one’s dream than oneself? A well of potential is hiding beneath all of us – to be an ally, to achieve heights of success. A diamond was also just a stone once. Unveil your worth.